tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30984777.post326146030749104377..comments2013-06-07T18:39:33.849+02:00Comments on Counting Beans...: A Long Long Time AgoMarisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12412734634457510531noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30984777.post-80863938113147429162007-03-27T17:11:00.000+02:002007-03-27T17:11:00.000+02:00Not ridiculous at all - we tend to conform alot to...Not ridiculous at all - we tend to conform alot to what our family / society / academic institution / religious group expects, and tend to get stuck in such a rut we forget who WE are. But every now & then it breaks through, and then we feel liberated.Titaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00484783099205541547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30984777.post-71679075936964396982007-03-26T20:06:00.000+02:002007-03-26T20:06:00.000+02:00Hmmmm, I don't know... ;-) No, I just made a consc...Hmmmm, I don't know... ;-) <BR/><BR/>No, I just made a conscious decision to let go a bit. To loosen the reins a little, if you will. I guess I realised I was missing out on so much and in fact, I was suppressing my OWN personality, thoughts and feelings. <BR/><BR/>Ridiculous, don't you think?? <BR/><BR/>So, to answer your first question, I don't think my favourite martian was the cause of the "breaking free", but I definitely feel that our relationship wouldn't have gone this far if I hadn't forced myself to "break free". <BR/><BR/>The me from back then wouldn't have given him a gap to come in...Marisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12412734634457510531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30984777.post-40080356139160347392007-03-26T11:44:00.000+02:002007-03-26T11:44:00.000+02:00Great to hear - would you say having bagged your f...Great to hear - would you say having bagged your favourite martian has anything to do with it? :p Well, it's cool you're doing well. I'm still stuck in the "self-control & inhibition" stage of my life - what's your breaking out secret?Titaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00484783099205541547noreply@blogger.com